JD Wetherspoon Commission
2 July 2015
15th September, 2022
Climbing Beyond Grief
My Second Attempt at the Three Peaks Challenge
Earlier this month, in September 2022, I set out to conquer a challenge that had eluded me more than a decade ago—the Three Peaks Challenge. This endeavor wasn't just a test of physical endurance; it was a deeply personal journey, a tribute to loved ones lost and a battle against the stigma surrounding mental health.
The Journey Begins
Back in 2011, my friends and I embarked on what we thought was the Three Peaks Challenge, only to realize we had climbed the wrong mountains. Despite this, our misadventure captured the hearts of many, turning our blunder into an inspirational story that helped us raise over £15,000 for charity. This experience taught me the power of perseverance and the unexpected paths our failures can lead us down.
Fast forward to 2020, the world, and I, faced unimaginable losses. My brother Kieran and my close friend Greg Roscow succumbed to their battles with mental health, leaving a void that words cannot fill. Their passing rekindled my desire to take on the Three Peaks Challenge once again, this time in their memory and to support the mental health charity MIND.
A Mission with a Cause
With the shadow of the pandemic highlighting the critical importance of mental health, I was more determined than ever to make this attempt count. I wanted to keep the conversation about mental health alive, to show that it's okay not to be okay, and to encourage men, in particular, to speak up about their struggles. As I trained and prepared for the challenge, I carried with me the heartbreak of loss but also a deep commitment to change the narrative around mental health.
This attempt was different. Armed with the lessons of the past and the support of mountaineering experts, I was confident there was "no chance" of getting lost this time. My journey was not just about reaching the summits but about raising awareness and funds for MIND, a charity doing incredible work in supporting those facing mental health challenges.
The Climb
On that September day, as I stood at the base of Ben Nevis, I felt a mix of emotions—excitement, nervousness, but above all, a sense of purpose. The climb was grueling, a relentless test of physical and mental strength. Yet, with each step, I felt closer to Kieran and Greg, driven by memories of their laughter, their struggles, and their unyielding spirit.
Scaling Snowdon, Scafell Pike, and finally Ben Nevis within 24 hours was an epic feat. Unlike my first attempt, this time I was not alone. I was part of an official MIND team, surrounded by individuals who shared my passion for the cause. Together, we faced the elements, the exhaustion, and the emotional highs and lows that come with such a challenge.
Reflections from the Summit
Completing the Three Peaks Challenge was a monumental personal achievement. But more importantly, it was a victory for the cause close to my heart. We managed to raise significant funds for MIND, contributing to the fight against mental health stigma and supporting those in need.
This journey was about more than just climbing mountains; it was about facing the internal peaks and valleys that come with grief and loss. It was a reminder that even in our darkest times, there is hope, and there is help. Through this challenge, I wanted to send a message—loud and clear—that it's okay to talk about mental health, to seek help, and to support each other.
Looking Ahead
As I reflect on this experience, I am filled with gratitude for the support and encouragement I received from friends, family, and strangers alike. The Three Peaks Challenge was a testament to the strength we find in unity and the power of turning grief into action.
My heart goes out to anyone struggling with mental health issues. Remember, you are not alone. Together, we can climb any mountain, face any challenge, and change the conversation around mental health for the better.
Thank you to everyone who supported this journey. Let's continue to climb beyond our limits, inspire change, and make a difference in the lives of those around us.
